my everyday essentials: a soft girl’s guide to what I actually use.
If you’ve ever watched one of my vlogs and found yourself wondering, “What gloss is that?” or “Where’s that candle from?” — then this post is absolutely for you. I’ve thoughtfully put together a special little corner of the internet where you can easily find every single one of the things I genuinely use, wear, and consistently reach for on repeat in my daily life. It’s a curated space designed to share the essentials that truly inspire my style and routine.
welcome to my soft girl starter pack 🗳
→ everything is linked on my shop page here: shopmy.us/alessamrodriguez
✧ CURRENT OBSESSIONS:
🧴 skincare i keep reordering
the outset lip treatment – always in my bag. it’s that good.
my favorite gentle cleanser – soft girl approved.
the moisturizer that makes me feel expensive ✨
💋 beauty i wear in real life
blush that makes me look alive in 2 seconds
🧸 cozy things for the vibe
my go-to candle for editing days
nyc apartment slippers
the throw blanket that makes me want to journal
💼 everyday things i carry
tote bag that fits it all
headphones that match the moment
i’m always updating my shop page — it’s like my soft girl brain, but clickable.
✨ check back anytime for cozy faves, nyc picks, and whatever’s currently living in my purse.
DISCLOSURE: SOME OF THE LINKS IN THIS POST ARE AFFILIATE LINKS AND IF YOU CLICK THROUGH OR MAKE A PURCHASE I WILL EARN A COMMISSION. PLEASE KEEP IN MIND THAT I ONLY SHARE ABOUT BRANDS/COMPANIES THAT I ADORE VERY MUCH.
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