What I Actually Wear in NYC Summer: Style Notes from a Curvy Girl in Harlem.
If you’ve ever attempted to look cute and stylish in 90º heat while navigating the challenges of climbing subway stairs and deftly dodging sidewalk scooters… then you know that summer in New York City is most certainly not for the faint of heart.
I’ve called Harlem my home long enough to understand exactly what fashion choices work and what absolutely falls flat — particularly when you’re curvy and firmly refuse to sacrifice comfort just to serve a chic look. Here’s a candid, real-life peek at what I genuinely wear when it’s summer in the city — the breathable staples that keep me cool, the accessories that save the day from any wardrobe crisis, and a few style rules that I unapologetically choose to break.
☀️ 1. Wide-Leg Linen Pants Are My Summer MVP
Yes, even in the heat — especially in the sweltering heat. Linen keeps me cool and comfortable, and the wide-leg silhouette adds an instant touch of effortless elegance. I usually opt for neutrals such as white, oat, and soft caramel, which are versatile and chic, and I love to pair them with simple tanks, cropped button-down shirts, or flowy blouses that are tucked in just slightly for a polished yet casual look.
bonus: they swish when i walk. we love movement.
🛍️ favorites:
👡 2. Platform Sandals > Anything Else
I need something that is comfy, supportive, and ideally suited for city-walking adventures—definitely no thank you to the discomfort of blisters. For the past month, I’ve been living in platform slides: they feature soft soles, provide zero heel, yet still offer just a little height and a touch of polish. These shoes are absolutely perfect for those quick coffee runs or those spontaneous bookstore stops that often turn into longer strolls through the city streets.
🖤 current faves:
Steve Madden “Kimmie” espadrille sandal
Dr. Scholl’s Time Off Sneaker (for closed-toe days)
🧺 3. Airy Dresses with Built-In Stretch (or Structure)
I lean toward flowy midi and maxi dresses that allow me to move freely and breathe comfortably — but still provide a cinched waist or a statement puff sleeve moment to create a flattering shape. Additionally, don’t sleep on the charming fit & flare styles — they effectively balance out curves and photograph beautifully, making them a versatile choice for any occasion.
📸 styling tip: tie a cardigan around your shoulders for a pop of texture or wear unbuttoned over the dress as a light layering piece.
👒 4. Add a Straw Hat & Call It a Day
protect your face and your vibe.
a straw hat adds drama, shields from sun, and gives your outfit that “i’m unbothered but pulled together” feel. i keep one near the door for spontaneous strolls and content days.
💡 pro tip: pair it with sunnies + hoop earrings = instant content-ready.
Summer fashion in NYC isn’t simply about achieving perfection — it’s truly all about strategy and personal expression. If an outfit makes you feel good, allows you to navigate through the bustling city with ease, and maintains a comfortable temperature even on the warmest days… that’s a definite win in my book.
I find myself constantly experimenting with color, fit, texture — and most importantly, my overall mood. So, if you happen to spot me uptown this summer? There's a good chance I’ll be wearing my favorite linen pants, a trendy cropped tank, stylish platform slides, and, of course, sipping on a refreshing big iced latte in hand.
see you out there 🕊️
— ally
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