🍎 A Perfect Saturday at Pennings Farm Cidery: A Hidden Gem in Warwick, NY.
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🍎 A Perfect Saturday at Pennings Farm Cidery: A Hidden Gem in Warwick, NY.

If you're looking for a cozy, vibrant spot to spend a Saturday afternoon, look no further than Pennings Farm Cidery in Warwick, NY. Just a short drive from NYC, this charming farm offers a delightful mix of craft ciders, live music, delicious food, and a welcoming atmosphere that makes every visit feel like a mini getaway.

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Fall in Central Park: Photo Spots + Peaceful Corners.
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Fall in Central Park: Photo Spots + Peaceful Corners.

If you’ve ever walked through Central Park in the fall, you know it’s like stepping into a living, breathing painting. Every tree glows in its own unique shade of gold and amber, creating a breathtaking mosaic of autumn hues. The crisp breeze carries the faint, comforting scent of roasted nuts wafting from a nearby cart, mingling with the fresh earthiness of fallen leaves. And somehow, despite the constant hum and chaos of the city just beyond the trees, it feels as if time itself slows down, allowing you to fully savor the peaceful, magical moment.

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The Best Halloween Pop-Ups + Events in NYC This Year.
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The Best Halloween Pop-Ups + Events in NYC This Year.

Spooky season is finally upon us—and New York City certainly doesn’t do Halloween half-heartedly. From immersive cocktail dens and chilling haunted walk-throughs to vibrant flash markets, festive dog parades, and larger-than-life street spectacles, there’s something for everyone. Here’s your ultimate guide to the Halloween pop-ups and exciting events you absolutely won’t want to miss in NYC this year.

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october in nyc.
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october in nyc.

October in New York City is truly one of my absolute favorite times of the year. The air turns crisp and refreshing, the leaves burst into vibrant shades of gold, orange, and red, transforming the streets into a breathtaking canvas. The city takes on a unique energy that only the fall season in NYC can provide. Whether you’re a local or just visiting, you’ll find no shortage of exciting events, cozy indoor activities, and rich cultural experiences to savor.

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5 NYC spots to savor before summer ends.
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5 NYC spots to savor before summer ends.

There’s something uniquely magical about late August in New York — the air remains sticky yet warm, while the sunsets gradually turn a rich, golden hue. The city’s usual relentless pace slows down just a bit, almost as if it senses we’re living on borrowed summer time. If you’ve been wanting to sneak in a few more unforgettable summer moments, I’ve got you covered.

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summer dates in NYC that don’t feel cheesy.
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summer dates in NYC that don’t feel cheesy.

Because you deserve a date that’s thoughtful, fun, and just a little bit magical.

We are reaching the end of the summer! I can’t believe it!

There’s no shortage of date ideas in NYC, but let’s be honest — a lot of them feel like they were pulled straight from a rom-com checklist. Dinner in the West Village? Cute, but predictable and often crowded. Rooftop drinks? Gorgeous views, but maybe a little too expected and overdone. If you’re looking for summer date ideas that feel genuinely fresh, fun, and actually thoughtful (read: not cheesy or cliché), I’ve got you covered with some unique options that will impress without feeling rehearsed.

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my favorite cafés in harlem (and beyond) to sip + write this spring.
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my favorite cafés in harlem (and beyond) to sip + write this spring.

spring in harlem hits different. there’s something about the energy shift when the sun actually sticks around and the sidewalks start blooming with tulips, toddlers, and iced oat lattes. i’ve been reclaiming my writing rhythm lately, and that means finding little corners of the city that let me sip slowly and think clearly.

if you're like me — looking for cafés with charm, caffeine, and a seat in the sun — here are two of my favorite outdoor spots in harlem right now. both are perfect for getting some writing done, people-watching, or just giving yourself a moment to breathe.

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august in nyc.
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august in nyc.

Here’s your comprehensive August 2025 New York City Events & Cultural Guide — a detailed and full rundown of music performances, vibrant community festivals, engaging public programs, captivating art exhibitions, and iconic happenings taking place across the five diverse boroughs…

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businesses to support in harlem in this summer.
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businesses to support in harlem in this summer.

as the sun settles in and summer hits uptown with all its golden-hour glow and sidewalk energy, i’ve been thinking a lot about what it means to show up for your neighborhood. and if you know me, you know harlem is more than just where i live — it’s a place i love deeply, with a heartbeat that’s unlike anywhere else in the city.

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nyc will humble you: 6 lessons from a native new Yorker.
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nyc will humble you: 6 lessons from a native new Yorker.

New York City raised me — but that doesn’t mean it’s ever gone easy on me. This place doesn’t simply hand you wisdom just because you’re born here. Instead, you have to earn it, day by day, moment by moment. Through the relentless chaos, the unexpected beauty, and the countless experiences that make you both laugh out loud and question everything you thought you knew, New York shapes you in ways no other city can.

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the best local getaways for a day trip from nyc.
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the best local getaways for a day trip from nyc.

summer’s in full swing, and if you’re like me, you’re always on the lookout for a quick little escape from the chaos of the city without going too far. sometimes we just need a breather — somewhere green, peaceful, or just plain cute — and lucky for us, new york city is surrounded by spots that are perfect for a day trip.

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why the met still matters — and always will.
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why the met still matters — and always will.

Let’s talk about the Met. Not the opera (though we do love a good dramatic aria), but the Met — the Metropolitan Museum of Art. Sitting elegantly on the edge of Central Park, it’s far more than just another tourist stop. It stands as a true cornerstone of New York City’s cultural identity, a place where history and creativity seamlessly blend. If you’ve ever wandered through its grand marble halls or found yourself staring too long at a painting you didn’t fully understand but still felt something deeply, then you already know why the Met truly matters.

but let’s get into it.

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lorna simpson: source notes — a bold evolution of memory, identity, and abstraction at the met.
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lorna simpson: source notes — a bold evolution of memory, identity, and abstraction at the met.

Lorna Simpson: Source Notes at The Met is a stunning, transformative exploration of an artist’s journey from conceptual photography to bold, emotionally resonant painting. Open through November 2 at the Fifth Avenue location, this compelling exhibition is the first to spotlight Simpson’s significant painting practice—spanning more than 30 powerful works created over the last decade, offering a deep and nuanced insight into her evolving artistic vision.

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black elegance, bold resistance: inside the met’s “superfine” exhibition.
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black elegance, bold resistance: inside the met’s “superfine” exhibition.

You know how I get when a show is both smart and soul-stirring—Superfine: Tailoring Black Style at the Met nails that rare balance. Walking into Gallery 999, the opening quote from Olaudah Equiano—“I laid out above eight pounds of my money for a suit of superfine clothes to dance with at my freedom”—instantly set the tone. It’s not just about clothes; it’s about claiming identity, agency, and joy (metmuseum.org).

Curated by Andrew Bolton and Monica L. Miller, this is the Costume Institute’s first sharp, direct engagement with race in menswear. The exhibition spans three centuries across twelve thematic rooms—Ownership, Presence, Disguise, Cool, Cosmopolitanism—shedding light on how Black dress has consistently been a powerful form of both resistance and self-expression (en.wikipedia.org).

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july in nyc.
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july in nyc.

July in New York City is a vibrant tapestry of patriotic celebrations, culture-rich festivals, electrifying performances, and exciting outdoor adventures. From iconic Fourth of July fireworks to diverse street fairs and live music events, the city pulses with energy. Here’s your carefully curated guide to the standout highlights—whether you’re a local eager to explore or a visitor discovering the city for the first time.

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How to Get a New York City Library Card (And Why You Definitely Should).
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How to Get a New York City Library Card (And Why You Definitely Should).

You already know I’m incredibly romantic about most things in New York, but a library card? To me, that’s peak main character energy. I got mine a while ago, and it honestly feels like one of those beautifully underrated adult wins — similar to discovering your go-to deli or successfully getting on a landlord’s good side. If you're currently in NYC and you haven’t yet obtained a library card, let me help you fix that little oversight. Here’s how it works, where to go for the best experience, and why it’s 100% worth every effort you put into getting one.

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Hotels in NYC I Love (From Bougie to Budget-Friendly).
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Hotels in NYC I Love (From Bougie to Budget-Friendly).

Whether you're visiting New York City for the first time or planning a delightful staycation (which I highly recommend, by the way), picking the right hotel truly matters. This vibrant city offers an abundance of options — some are iconic landmarks, others maintain a low-key charm, and then there are those that just perfectly capture the unique vibe of NYC. With that in mind, I put together a thoughtfully curated list of hotels in NYC that I genuinely love — places I’ve personally stayed in, toured extensively, or bookmarked for my future travels. Whether you’re looking to splurge on a luxurious escape or find a cozy spot that’s budget-friendly yet stylish, there’s something here for you to consider.

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Summer in Harlem: 7 Things I’m Loving Right Now.
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Summer in Harlem: 7 Things I’m Loving Right Now.

I always say that Harlem in the summer is truly its kind of poetry. The trees are full and lush, the stoops are bustling with activity, the music floats through the open windows, and there’s something extra vibrant and alive in the air. Maybe it’s the heat. Maybe it’s the rich history surrounding us. Either way, I find myself endlessly inspired during this beautiful time of year. So here’s a little list of what I’m loving lately — the charming places, the delightful snacks, the comforting routines, and the simple things that are making this summer feel uniquely like mine right here in Harlem.

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