businesses to support in harlem in this summer.
as the sun settles in and summer hits uptown with all its golden-hour glow and sidewalk energy, i’ve been thinking a lot about what it means to show up for your neighborhood. and if you know me, you know harlem is more than just where i live — it’s a place i love deeply, with a heartbeat that’s unlike anywhere else in the city.
nyc will humble you: 6 lessons from a native new Yorker.
New York City raised me — but that doesn’t mean it’s ever gone easy on me. This place doesn’t simply hand you wisdom just because you’re born here. Instead, you have to earn it, day by day, moment by moment. Through the relentless chaos, the unexpected beauty, and the countless experiences that make you both laugh out loud and question everything you thought you knew, New York shapes you in ways no other city can.
the best local getaways for a day trip from nyc.
summer’s in full swing, and if you’re like me, you’re always on the lookout for a quick little escape from the chaos of the city without going too far. sometimes we just need a breather — somewhere green, peaceful, or just plain cute — and lucky for us, new york city is surrounded by spots that are perfect for a day trip.
why the met still matters — and always will.
Let’s talk about the Met. Not the opera (though we do love a good dramatic aria), but the Met — the Metropolitan Museum of Art. Sitting elegantly on the edge of Central Park, it’s far more than just another tourist stop. It stands as a true cornerstone of New York City’s cultural identity, a place where history and creativity seamlessly blend. If you’ve ever wandered through its grand marble halls or found yourself staring too long at a painting you didn’t fully understand but still felt something deeply, then you already know why the Met truly matters.
but let’s get into it.
lorna simpson: source notes — a bold evolution of memory, identity, and abstraction at the met.
Lorna Simpson: Source Notes at The Met is a stunning, transformative exploration of an artist’s journey from conceptual photography to bold, emotionally resonant painting. Open through November 2 at the Fifth Avenue location, this compelling exhibition is the first to spotlight Simpson’s significant painting practice—spanning more than 30 powerful works created over the last decade, offering a deep and nuanced insight into her evolving artistic vision.
black elegance, bold resistance: inside the met’s “superfine” exhibition.
You know how I get when a show is both smart and soul-stirring—Superfine: Tailoring Black Style at the Met nails that rare balance. Walking into Gallery 999, the opening quote from Olaudah Equiano—“I laid out above eight pounds of my money for a suit of superfine clothes to dance with at my freedom”—instantly set the tone. It’s not just about clothes; it’s about claiming identity, agency, and joy (metmuseum.org).
Curated by Andrew Bolton and Monica L. Miller, this is the Costume Institute’s first sharp, direct engagement with race in menswear. The exhibition spans three centuries across twelve thematic rooms—Ownership, Presence, Disguise, Cool, Cosmopolitanism—shedding light on how Black dress has consistently been a powerful form of both resistance and self-expression (en.wikipedia.org).
july in nyc.
July in New York City is a vibrant tapestry of patriotic celebrations, culture-rich festivals, electrifying performances, and exciting outdoor adventures. From iconic Fourth of July fireworks to diverse street fairs and live music events, the city pulses with energy. Here’s your carefully curated guide to the standout highlights—whether you’re a local eager to explore or a visitor discovering the city for the first time.
How to Get a New York City Library Card (And Why You Definitely Should).
You already know I’m incredibly romantic about most things in New York, but a library card? To me, that’s peak main character energy. I got mine a while ago, and it honestly feels like one of those beautifully underrated adult wins — similar to discovering your go-to deli or successfully getting on a landlord’s good side. If you're currently in NYC and you haven’t yet obtained a library card, let me help you fix that little oversight. Here’s how it works, where to go for the best experience, and why it’s 100% worth every effort you put into getting one.
a quiet kind of powerful: amy sherald at the whitney.
Last week, I wandered over to the Whitney Museum on a quiet, slow weekday afternoon to see the exhibition Amy Sherald: American Sublime, and honestly, I haven’t stopped thinking about it since. The experience left a lasting impression that continues to resonate with me.
Hotels in NYC I Love (From Bougie to Budget-Friendly).
Whether you're visiting New York City for the first time or planning a delightful staycation (which I highly recommend, by the way), picking the right hotel truly matters. This vibrant city offers an abundance of options — some are iconic landmarks, others maintain a low-key charm, and then there are those that just perfectly capture the unique vibe of NYC. With that in mind, I put together a thoughtfully curated list of hotels in NYC that I genuinely love — places I’ve personally stayed in, toured extensively, or bookmarked for my future travels. Whether you’re looking to splurge on a luxurious escape or find a cozy spot that’s budget-friendly yet stylish, there’s something here for you to consider.
Summer in Harlem: 7 Things I’m Loving Right Now.
I always say that Harlem in the summer is truly its kind of poetry. The trees are full and lush, the stoops are bustling with activity, the music floats through the open windows, and there’s something extra vibrant and alive in the air. Maybe it’s the heat. Maybe it’s the rich history surrounding us. Either way, I find myself endlessly inspired during this beautiful time of year. So here’s a little list of what I’m loving lately — the charming places, the delightful snacks, the comforting routines, and the simple things that are making this summer feel uniquely like mine right here in Harlem.
Happening in NYC - June 2025
June 2025 in New York City promises an exciting and diverse array of vibrant events, ranging from thrilling cultural parades and lively music festivals to the much-anticipated Broadway's biggest night. Here's your comprehensive guide to the must-see happenings and experiences you won't want to miss this month…
What Living in Harlem Has Taught Me About Slowing Down.
I know the concepts of “slow living” and “New York City” don’t usually belong together in the same sentence or conversation. However, somehow, the vibrant neighborhood of Harlem makes it all come together beautifully and makes perfect sense. When I first moved here, I found myself unexpectedly caught in hustle mode 24/7—endlessly chasing every freelance gig, staying up way too late editing my work, and trying to make everything happen all at once while feeling overwhelmed. Sound familiar?
Happening in NYC - May 2025.
Here’s an expertly curated guide to some of the most exciting major concerts, thrilling sports events, captivating musicals, and unique pop-up happenings taking place in the vibrant city of New York throughout May 2025.
7 Cozy Coffee Shops to Visit in NYC Right Now
There’s just something about New York coffee shops — the energy, the character, the way they make even a simple cup feel like a full moment. Whether you’re craving a quick espresso, a cozy spot to journal, or just looking for a new favorite neighborhood café, the city’s got endless options. Today I’m sharing a few of my current favorite coffee spots around the Upper West Side, Harlem, and Midtown. Each one has its own special vibe, but they all deliver the same thing: really good coffee and a little escape from the everyday.
Exploring NYC: 10 Hidden Gems for Fashion Enthusiasts.
New York City, a vibrant mecca for fashion enthusiasts from around the globe, offers a wealth of iconic landmarks, trendy neighborhoods, and world-class shopping destinations that cater to diverse tastes and styles. However, beyond the well-trodden paths and familiar haunts, lies an enchanting treasure trove of hidden gems just waiting to be discovered by those eager to explore. In this blog post, we will delve into the top 10 hidden gems specifically curated for fashion enthusiasts in NYC, highlighting unique boutiques, local artisans, and other must-visit spots that embody the city's dynamic style.
Hidden Gems of New York City: 10 Unexplored Spots to Add to Your Bucket List.
New York City, a vibrant metropolis filled with iconic landmarks and bustling streets, holds countless secrets waiting to be uncovered by the curious traveler. Beyond the bright lights of Times Square and the serene tranquility of Central Park, lies a captivating world of hidden gems and unique experiences begging to be explored. From charming neighborhoods to eclectic eateries, the city invites you to discover its many layers and rich stories.
maybe ally sees…Luna Luna.
We recently had the incredible opportunity to experience the mesmerizing world of #LunaLuna at The Shed in NYC, and it truly left a lasting impression on both of us! This immersive art installation is an absolute MUST-SEE for anyone who deeply appreciates the beauty of art, music, and the enriching journey of self-discovery.
Explore New York City: Local Edition.
As a local New Yorker, it's surprisingly easy to get caught up in the relentless hustle and bustle of daily life, often overlooking the incredible and diverse experiences that our vibrant city has to offer. From the iconic landmarks that draw tourists from around the globe to the lesser-known neighborhood gems that hold a special charm, there is always something new and exciting waiting to be discovered.
Explore New York City: Tourist Edition.
The city that never sleeps! New York City is a vibrant and truly exciting destination, brimming with iconic landmarks, fascinating cultural attractions, and an endless array of entertainment options waiting to be explored. Whether you're a first-time visitor eager to soak it all in or a seasoned traveler with a desire to rediscover hidden gems, the energy of this remarkable city is undeniably captivating and invigorating.