(the ones I actually use and love in my NYC life)

If you’ve been here for a while — on YouTube, on the blog, or over on Instagram — you already know that content creation is a huge part of my everyday life. It’s how I document my NYC days, tell my stories, and connect with you guys & dolls in a way that feels real.

And over time, I’ve learned something important: it’s not about having everything — it’s about having the right tools that make creating feel easy, fun, and aligned with your life.

There’s something about living in New York City that can make you feel like you’re always a few steps behind.

The trains are rushing. The sidewalks are packed. Everyone seems to be on their way to something.

And for a long time, I thought I had to match that energy.

But lately, I’ve been leaning into something different—something slower, quieter, softer.

Soft living in a busy city isn’t about escaping it all. It’s about choosing how you move through it.

Here are a few ways I’ve been practicing that lately.

There’s this version of creative life that looks really good from the outside.

It’s quiet mornings with coffee, working on your laptop, editing something you love, building something that feels like you. And don’t get me wrong—I love that part. I’ve built a life around those moments. But what people don’t always talk about is how easy it is for that version of creativity to become… a little lonely.

Because creating—especially consistently—can feel like you’re living in your own head.

And that’s where community comes in.

There’s a quiet pressure in creative life to constantly be on — to always be making, posting, editing, planning, dreaming. And while I love what I do, I’ve learned that creativity doesn’t actually thrive in burnout… it gently softens and regains clarity in small, intentional moments of care. Not full-day resets. Not elaborate routines.

Just little, meaningful things that bring you back to yourself. Here are a few mini self-care ideas I’ve been leaning into lately — especially on the days when I still want to create but need to feel like myself again first.

Spring in New York always feels like a quiet reset. The days get a little longer, the air softens, and suddenly I’m inspired again — to plan trips, try new beauty finds, wander different neighborhoods, and lean back into creative routines.

Lately I’ve been collecting little moments and things that are bringing me joy. Some are big (hello, travel plans), others are small (like a perfect red lipstick moment before heading out the door). Here are five things I’m currently loving this spring.

Let’s talk about something no one really prepares you for: staying motivated when you’re building something that only you can see the full vision of.

Creating — whether it’s YouTube videos, blog posts, newsletters, or even just documenting your life — sounds romantic. And sometimes it is. But more often? It’s quiet. It’s disciplined. It’s showing up when the views are low, the ideas feel repetitive, and your energy is somewhere between “inspired” and “I would rather be horizontal.”

There was a time when I thought romanticizing your life in New York City meant expensive dinners, trendy rooftops, and constantly being out. Like if I wasn’t doing the most, I was somehow doing it wrong.

Turns out… that version of NYC burnout is very real.

December always asks me to slow down, whether I want to or not. The city feels quieter in a way that only happens right before the year turns. Fewer expectations. More space to think. And honestly, I’ve learned to listen to that pause instead of rushing past it.

2025 wasn’t loud for me. It wasn’t about big viral moments or overnight wins. It was a year of showing up, trying things out, pulling back when I needed to, and slowly understanding what actually matters to me. Here’s what this year taught me.

as we step into a brand new year, i wanted to pop in here and say thank you. truly. for reading, watching, commenting, sharing, and letting me show up in your inbox or on your screen this past year. it has meant more than i can ever properly put into words.

with that said, i’m taking a short break.

slow mornings, warm lattes, and finding comfort in the city that never slows down

There’s something about fall in Harlem that just hits differently. The air gets crisp, the brownstones feel cozier, and even the morning light has a soft, golden way of easing me into a new day. I’ve been leaning into slower habits lately — things that make me feel grounded before I step into the chaos of the city — and today, I wanted to share the little routine that’s been keeping me balanced this season.

Whether you’re in NYC or just craving that “slow, cozy, morning in the city” energy, here’s how my fall mornings in Harlem usually unfold.

There are few things that mean more to us than the deep and unconditional love we share with our cherished pets. This season, Marc Jacobs has brilliantly found a way to turn that love into a captivating work of art with their Bark Jacobs event—an exclusive, pet-inspired experience that beautifully blends creativity, fashion, and heartfelt memories. Due to overwhelming demand and enthusiastic response, appointments have now been extended through November 2025, giving even more devoted pet lovers a wonderful opportunity to participate in this unique celebration.

This summer, I traded my usual NYC backdrop for a new adventure: a trip to Chicago. And of course, I brought you with me. My Chicago vlog series on YouTube is now live, and it’s packed with all the city magic — iconic landmarks, hidden gems, incredible food, and those little cozy travel moments that make a trip unforgettable.

If you’re planning a trip soon or just curious about things to do in Chicago in 2025, these vlogs are for you.

Fall in New York City always feels like a gentle, soft reset button. The crisp air shifts noticeably, the city’s pace changes, and suddenly I find myself craving routines that feel more grounding instead of the carefree chaos of summer. Maybe it’s the familiar school-year energy that lingers sweetly in the air or simply the relief that I can finally sip my coffee without immediately breaking into a sweat—but I truly love leaning into this season as a valuable chance to pause and reevaluate how I’m living day to day.