☀️ august in nyc.
there's something bittersweet about august in new york.
the city is still buzzing with summer energy, but you can feel the seasons beginning to shift. the sunsets come a little earlier, the evenings are just a little softer, and everyone seems determined to squeeze every last drop out of summer.
personally? i kind of love it.
august is the month for saying yes to rooftop dinners, lingering in bookstores a little longer, catching an outdoor movie, or taking the ferry somewhere just because you can.
the august edit.
there's something about august in new york city that feels different.
the city is still buzzing, but the pace starts to slow just enough to notice. the sunsets come a little earlier, the humidity finally gives you a break (sometimes), and suddenly everyone is talking about fall—even though we're still wearing sandals.
i've always loved this in-between season because getting dressed becomes more creative. it's less about chasing every summer trend and more about mixing the pieces you've been loving all season with a few hints of what's coming next.
here's what's inspiring my wardrobe this august.
Things I’ve Quietly Outgrown in My 30s.
Some milestones come with your 30s that everyone talks about—buying a home and getting married. Starting a family. Landing your dream job.
But I've found that the biggest changes aren't always the loud ones.
They're the quiet shifts that happen over time. The things you stop apologizing for. The habits you leave behind without even realizing it. The version of yourself that slowly fades because you've finally made room for someone who feels more at peace.
My 30s haven't been about becoming someone completely different. They've been about coming home to myself.
Here are a few things I've quietly outgrown along the way.
The Importance of Slow Mornings in a Fast World.
There's a quiet kind of luxury that has nothing to do with expensive coffee orders, perfectly curated apartments, or checking everything off your to-do list before noon.
It's waking up without immediately reaching for your phone.
It's sunlight coming through the window while your coffee brews.
It's permitting yourself to exist before the world starts asking things of you.
We live in a culture that celebrates hustle. Productivity is often treated like a personality trait, and somehow we've convinced ourselves that every spare minute should be optimized. But the older I get, the more I realize that not every moment needs to be productive. Some moments simply need to be lived.
Self-Care Days: How I Relax and Recharge.
There was a time when I thought self-care had to be expensive. I pictured luxury spa days, weekend getaways, or perfectly curated morning routines that started before sunrise. While those things can absolutely be part of self-care, I've learned that the moments that help me feel the most like myself are usually the simplest.
Living in New York City can be exciting, inspiring, and full of energy—but it can also be loud, busy, and overwhelming. Between creating content, writing blog posts, filming YouTube videos, keeping up with social media, and simply navigating daily life, I've realized that taking care of myself isn't something I earn after being productive. It's something I need in order to show up as my best self.
These are the little rituals that help me slow down, recharge, and find balance.
Is Blogging Worth It in 2026?
If you've spent even five minutes on social media lately, you've probably heard someone say that blogging is dead.
Apparently, we're all supposed to be making short-form videos, chasing trends, and hoping the algorithm is nice to us that day.
And yet... here you are. Reading a blog.
So, is blogging still worth it in 2026?
For me, the answer is a very easy yes.
Things I'm Learning in My Late 30s.
Your thirties have a funny way of changing you.
Not overnight. Not in one big life-changing moment. More like a hundred tiny moments that slowly reshape the way you think, spend your time, love people, and show up for yourself.
When I was younger, I thought I'd have everything figured out by now. The career. The confidence. The apartment that looked like it belonged in a magazine. The perfect routine. The perfect life.
Instead, I've learned that your thirties aren't about having all the answers—they're about getting comfortable asking better questions.
Here are a few things I'm learning as I navigate this decade.
My Favorite Harlem Streets for Walks (And Why I Keep Coming Back).
There's something special about walking through Harlem.
No matter how many times I wander these streets, I always notice something new—a brownstone I somehow missed before, a blooming tree tucked between buildings, a neighborhood café buzzing on a Saturday morning, or the way the light hits the architecture just before sunset.
Walking has become one of my favorite ways to experience New York City. It's free, it's grounding, and it's the easiest way to slow down in a city that's constantly moving.
If you're looking to explore Harlem beyond the tourist stops, these are the streets I find myself returning to again and again.
Living in NYC in Your 30s: The Honest Pros & Cons.
There was a time when I thought living in New York City in my 30s would look completely different.
In my twenties, I imagined that by now I'd have everything figured out. I'd know exactly where I was headed, have a perfectly decorated apartment, a thriving social life, and enough confidence to navigate the city without questioning every decision.
Instead, what I've discovered is that your 30s in New York are less about having all the answers and more about building a life that feels like yours.
It's exciting. It's exhausting. It's expensive. It's inspiring.
Travel Style: How to Pack Efficiently for Summer Trips.
Packing for a summer trip always sounds easy—until you're staring at an open suitcase, wondering how you'll fit seven outfits, three pairs of shoes, and all your skincare into one bag.
Over the years, I've learned that packing efficiently doesn't mean sacrificing style. In fact, some of my favorite travel outfits have come from carefully editing what I bring, rather than overpacking "just-in-case" pieces that never leave the suitcase.
Whether you're heading to the beach, exploring a new city, or planning a weekend getaway, here's how to pack smarter while still feeling like yourself throughout your trip.
☀️ july in nyc.
If June feels like the start of summer, July is summer.
The city is hot, busy, loud, exciting, and somehow still magical.
It's rooftop cocktails after work. It's iced coffee melting before you finish it. It's staying out until 10 pm because the sky still has color in it.
July in New York is all about experiencing the city outdoors. So if you're looking for the best things to do, see, and experience this month, here's your guide.
the july edit.
july in new york city is its own thing.
the sidewalks are warm, the parks are full, and somehow every weekend turns into an adventure you didn't plan for. it's the month of iced coffees, ferry rides, outdoor concerts, spontaneous dinners, and staying out later than you meant to.
fashion follows that energy.
Now Traveling + Break Time!
Hey guys & dolls,
By the time you’re reading this, I’ll have already been in Las Vegas for a bit and am getting ready to spend some time in Los Angeles, too.
I wanted to pop in before I fully slip into vacation mode and let you know things may be a little quieter around here for a little bit. Sometimes the best thing a creator can do is step away from the screen, gather new experiences, and come back with fresh stories to tell.
This trip is giving me exactly that.
My NYC Summer Bucket List.
There’s something magical about summer in New York City.
The days feel longer. The city stays awake later. Sidewalks fill with people heading to dinner, parks become living rooms, and suddenly everyone is looking for reasons to spend as much time outside as possible.
Every year, I make a mental list of things I want to do around the city. Some are classic NYC summer experiences, and others are small moments that make me feel connected to where I live.
This year’s NYC summer bucket list is a mix of both.
Quick Escapes: Best Day Trips from NYC.
Living in New York City means there's always something happening. A new coffee shop to try, a museum exhibit to see, or a neighborhood you've somehow never explored before. But every now and then, even the biggest NYC lover needs a little change of scenery.
The good news? Some of the best day trips from NYC are only a train ride or short drive away. Whether you're craving small-town charm, beautiful waterfront views, nature, or just a slower pace for a few hours, there are plenty of places to escape without booking a full vacation.
Where I Go in NYC to Feel Inspired.
There’s something about New York City that constantly reminds me to pay attention.
Maybe it’s the way the light hits a brownstone on a quiet side street. Maybe it’s overhearing a conversation at a coffee shop or stumbling into a bookstore I somehow never noticed before. Living in Harlem has taught me that inspiration isn’t always found in big moments. More often, it’s tucked into the everyday.
As someone who creates content, writes blog posts, films YouTube videos, and documents life in NYC, finding inspiration is part of my job. Thankfully, this city makes it easy.
These are the places I return to whenever I need a creative reset.
A Day at the Museum of the Moving Image in Queens, NYC.
There are still places in New York City that surprise me.
I think that’s one of my favorite parts about living here. No matter how long you’ve been in the city, there’s always a neighborhood you haven’t fully explored yet, a coffee shop hiding on a quiet block, or a museum that somehow stayed off your radar until the exact moment you needed it.
That’s exactly how I felt walking into the Museum of the Moving Image in Astoria, Queens.
I had never been before which honestly shocked me because film, television, nostalgia, storytelling, all of that is so deeply tied to the kind of content I love creating and consuming. But somehow this museum stayed tucked away on my NYC bucket list for years.
And now that I’ve finally gone, I already know I’ll be back.
Back to L.A.: What I’m Wearing, Packing & Doing.
There are a handful of cities that feel familiar the second you land, and Los Angeles is one of them for me.
This summer, I'm heading back to L.A. for a few days of sunshine, good food, a little movie magic, and plenty of wandering. While New York will always be home, there’s something about Los Angeles that makes me slow down, take the long way, and spend an afternoon exploring without a set plan.
I’ve been getting questions about what I’m packing and what I’ll be doing while I’m there, so I thought I’d share a quick preview before the trip.
How I Turn Everyday Moments Into Blog Ideas.
One of the questions I get asked most often is where I find ideas for my blog.
The truth? Most of my blog posts don’t start with a grand plan—they start with ordinary moments.
A conversation with a friend over coffee. A walk through Harlem. An outfit that makes me feel confident. A book that stays with me long after the last page.
I’ve learned that inspiration isn’t something you wait for—it’s something you notice.
My Favorite Fashion Hacks: 7 Life-Changing Tips.
There’s something about getting dressed in New York that teaches you quickly what actually works—and what only looks cute in theory. Between long subway walks, last-minute plans, coffee runs in Harlem, and trying to feel good in your clothes all day, I’ve picked up a few fashion habits that genuinely changed the way I shop, style outfits, and get dressed each morning.
None of these are complicated. They’re just little things that make fashion feel easier, more comfortable, and honestly more you.
Here are my favorite fashion hacks that completely changed the game for me.